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ALS doesn’t just destroy the body. It drains bank accounts, college funds, retirement savings, and any other financial cushion you can imagine.
In medical circles, the disease has earned a grim nickname: the “bankruptcy disease.” Between round-the-clock nursing care, specialized equipment, home modifications and experimental treatments, the costs pile up faster than any insurance policy can cover.
Right now, families across Long Island are living that reality in real time.
In Islip Terrace, a homeschool mom who built a community around her kitchen table is fighting the disease. In Rockville Centre, a beloved school teacher was forced into early retirement. In Massapequa Park, a young woman studying to become a nurse has instead become a full-time caregiver for her mother.
In Shirley, a man is gradually losing his ability to speak and eat. And in Port Washington, a Navy veteran with five children is facing the same devastating progression.
Combined, family, friends and strangers have raised more than $133,000 for the five Long Islanders via GoFundMe campaigns. It’s a number that for some could be the difference between dying at home surrounded by loved ones or in a facility because the money ran out.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention projects ALS cases will jump in the U.S. from nearly 33,000 in 2022 to over 36,000 by 2030 — a 10 percent increase, with cases among those 66 and older expected to spike 25 percent.
That’s thousands more families facing the same devastating math. May is ALS Awareness Month, and the recent death of actor Eric Dane at 53 has brought renewed attention to just how brutal this disease is, not only physically but financially.
For the families living through the disease, ALS becomes an every-day battle measured not just in symptoms and decline, but in invoices, insurance denials and impossible financial choices.
Homeschool mom builds community as ALS threatens her life’s work

Amount raised: $20,368
Islip Terrace
Jessica Martin’s days have long been defined by teaching, nurturing and creating spaces where children can learn and grow.
As a devoted homeschool mother to three young girls, she has spent years building more than just lessons — she has built a community.
Her home has become a gathering place for families through her homeschool co-op, where she teaches classes in baking, farming and and a bevy of other practical life skills that her learners will carry with them the rest of their lives.
Martin’s kitchen and farm have become classrooms where kids learn to knead dough, tend to animals, and understand where food comes from.
For the families who bring their children to learn from Martin, she represents more than just an educator. She is a mentor, a friend and someone who has given freely of her time and knowledge.
The connections forged in her home go beyond academics; they are friendships and memories that have shaped an entire community of homeschooling families.
Martin recently received devastating news that has upended everything she has built. Diagnosed with ALS, her future has become suddenly lined with uncertainty.
As Martin continues to care for her family and pour love into her home, she and her husband now face an overwhelming reality of medical appointments, treatments and an unknown road ahead.
The GoFundMe fundraiser organized by friend Viktoria Hermann for Martin and her family aims to cover medical care, supportive therapies and household expenses so that the woman’s family can focus on her care and time together.
Additionally, Vamos MMA is hosting a fundraiser on Martin’s behalf on June 6 at 2 p.m. Vamos MMA is located at 1708 Church St. in Holbrook. The event will feature a bounce house and face painting for children, as well as a stand-up comedian performance and a chance auction.
Rockville Centre teacher faces early retirement

Amount raised: $57,0005
Oceanside
Mike Saglembeni has spent 27 years shaping young minds as a teacher at Riverside Elementary School in the Rockville Centre School District.
Known to his students as Mr. Sag, friends said he has left an immeasurable impact on the hundreds of children and families who have passed through his classroom.
But in February, at just 51, Saglembeni’s ALS diagnosis changed everything.
Saglembeni, a GoFundMe page started on his behalf, is a loving husband to Dana, his wife of 22 years, and an adventurous, fun-loving father to his three sons, Michael, Louis and Dominick.
His life has revolved around his family and his students.
Whether at the hockey rink, on the basketball court, or at Boy Scout events, Saglembeni has always been there for his boys, cheering them on and supporting their passions, Lisa Goodenough and Caryn Gugger wrote on the GoFundMe page they established.
ALS has attacked Saglembeni’s body with devastating speed, turning his body against itself.
Already, he’s been forced into retirement, as he navigates being robbed of his ability to move, speak and eat. As his need for around-the-clock care increases daily, his family is working tirelessly to renovate their home so he can remain with them, rather than go to a facility.
The loss of income, together with the mounting medical costs, have been wreaked havoc on the Saglembenis.
The fundraiser is helping the family manage costs that insurance will not cover, including home accessibility renovations, specialized medical equipment and daily care needs.
The campaign is pushing to ease the financial burden so Saglemeni’s wife and children can focus on caring for him and spending precious time together as a family.
Mother of two college students needs care 24/7

Amount raised: $17,306
Massapequa Park
Debbie Berman Marino has spent her life pouring herself into others with generosity, loyalty, and kindness.
Known for the way she touches the lives of everyone around her, Marino is a loving wife to her husband Guy and a devoted mother to two children who are reaching major milestones, according to the GoFundMe page created last month by Marino’s best friend Lisa Hespe.
Marino’s son Caleb is graduating from college this May, while her daughter Ava is studying to become a nurse and has taken on a caregiver role for her mother.
Marino’s recent ALS diagnosis has transformed not just her life, but the lives of everyone who loves her. Her support system includes her husband Guy; her children; and her three sisters, Karen, Andrea and Linda; and her sisters’ husbands and children.
Already, Marino needs daily medical care, home health aides seven days a week, physical therapy and a constant arsenal of medical equipment and supplies.
Because she can no longer work, the family faces mounting expenses. The costs of her treatment have added up quickly, creating a financial burden that has become too much for the family to manage alone.
The fundraiser organized Hespe, Marino’s friend for 30 years, will help cover medical supplies, equipment and in-home care.
Bulbar ALS robs Long Island man of speech, mobility

Amount raised: $22,445
Shirley
People close to Greg Lamirata say he has been a son, father, husband and friend has always shown up for the people in his life.
He grew up on the same block as his childhood friend Debra Miskovsky, who organized the fundraiser for Lamirata. Lamirata was just recently diagnosed with ALS Bulbar, a particularly devastating for the disease also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease.
The bulbar form of ALS attacks the muscles that control speaking, eating and swallowing. The disease is already taking its toll on Lamirata, rapidly affecting his abilities to communicate and eat.
As Lamirata faces mounting expenses for medical care and daily support, the financial burden is compounding the emotional toll, Miskovsky details on the GoFundMe page.
For Lamirata, the disease demands constant attention, specialized equipment and modifications to daily life that insurance rarely covers in full.
The fundraising campaign for Lamirata aims to ease the financial pressure so that the family can focus on his care, quality of life and the time they have together.
Navy veteran faces ALS with five children by his side

Amount raised: $17,150
Port Washington
David Weber’s life has been defined by service — to his country, his union, and above all, his five children.
A proud Navy veteran who served from 1992 to 1996, Weber graduated from boot camp with the Military Excellence Award and completed two Western Pacific cruises during his time in uniform.
Following his military service, he built a career as a Studio Mechanic in the Shop Craft department with IATSE Local 52.
His recent ALS diagnosis has brought overwhelming physical and financial challenges to a man who has spent his life working with his hands and taking care of others.
ALS is attacking his body, forcing Weber and his family to confront a future filled with uncertainty, medical expenses, and the need for constant care.
The costs are mounting quickly: specialized medical care and equipment not covered by insurance, home modifications to ensure Weber’s safety, mobility, and independence, as well as essential support for his five children during this difficult transition.
Working in the entertainment industry, Weber gained a reputation as someone who is always the first to offer a hand to a fellow union member on set — someone who showed up for his brothers and sisters without hesitation.
Now, his union community, military family and friends are coming together to have his back. The fundraiser organized by Joe Kupillas emphasizes Weber’s reliability — on set, in the Navy, and in his children’s lives.
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